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Confidence Boosters: Tips to Lift You
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Confidence Boosters: Tips to Lift You

January 13, 2016January 25, 2017 Editor Comments Off on Confidence Boosters: Tips to Lift You

Confidence is about setting yourself small challenges a step at a time

Some people seem to brim with confidence but most others are far less certain. But how are we meant to know whether our confidence is lacking? There are three key indicators:

  1. First, you’re a bit of a negative thinker. You always compare yourself to other people and a lot of these seem better than you.
  2. Secondly, you feel uncomfortable in social situations or possibly even relationships.
  3. Thirdly, you talk yourself down from having high aspirations. You’re uncomfortable approaching new situations and you don’t take advantage of opportunities if they come your way.

One thing should be clear already and that is confidence is a state of mind.  It’s important to acknowledge and then learn to identify the kind of negative thoughts you use in relation to those situations you feel uncomfortable about. Having started the process it’s necessary to flip these thoughts on their head so that things like, “I can’t do that,” become thoughts like, “I’d like to try that.”

Actions

While you’re getting used to challenging these thoughts you can be doing other things as confidence boosters. You’ll start to feel good if you look good. So check yourself over – everything from hair to toenails and then put on some nice clothes. If you don’t already do so show some respect to your body.

Put away the junk food, the sugary drinks and deserts and focus on a healthy diet. Put in on the plate in a way that looks nice and appealing. Respect your body by toning up. If 30 minutes a day is too much in one go, just break it down into sections of say 10 minutes.

Manage your behaviour so it suits and benefits you rather than others. Alright, this isn’t always possible or practical but plenty of situations exist that will allow you to shift your attention away from negative vibes to something more positive. Knock backs are a fact of life and learning to accept and manage these is important. As one door closes another opens so for every disappointment there are more opportunities, if you look for them.

Be kind to yourself. Why should someone else’s view of you be more important than your own? That internal chatter you generate and listen to in your head is all part of the problem. Try to look at what you’re saying to yourself from a different angle. It can be helpful to imagine yourself giving advice to another person who’s saying what you’re thinking. What would you say to them and what advice would you give?

Every journey starts with a single step. Confidence boosters come about by setting yourself small challenges. These will be the foundation upon which you’ll build. There will always be moments of self-doubt and insecurity as there are in everyone’s lives but accepting these is all a part of confidence building. Belief in yourself may not come easily to you but it’s a worthy goal and one that is attainable with time and practice.

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