Many people don’t trust themselves for one reason or another. If you include yourself in this group, ask yourself why. Knowing the cause can help you break the issue down and begin to change.
Once you discover the problem, you will be well on your way to learning how to trust yourself.
Start with your childhood. I don’t mean in that way people think of, lying on a couch talking about every aspect of why your parents weren’t perfect people. However, if you think back to your childhood, it can give you some clues as to why you have developed a distrust of yourself.
Perhaps your parents were distrustful of themselves? It could also be siblings or other relatives. The purpose is not to blame them. Just recognize that it happened and use it to move forward.
Do you find it difficult to trust others?
It’s a situation that causes you to be in a constant mode of distrust. It isn’t too much of a stretch for that mode to extend to you. Therefore, you have to learn how to start putting trust in other people. Most people will appreciate you for it.
Are you an overly sensitive person? If so, this could cause you to be mistrustful of yourself. You may take what others’ say out of context. That is because of your sensitive nature. It’s not wrong to be sensitive. You just have to realize that it can cause you to misread what others are saying or feeling.
Putting your trust in others may backfire.
Some people are simply not trustworthy. They may even put on a front that they are. You should accept this as a part of life, and try not to project experiences from a few onto other people. Otherwise, you are going to continue to maintain your wall. This wall will make it difficult for you to trust others as well as yourself.
Another reason for not trusting yourself is that others don’t trust you. If you are not trustworthy, how can you expect to trust yourself? You may not even realize this is happening.
You may think you are doing right by others when in fact, you aren’t. Ask for an honest assessment as to whether your friends and family feel you are trustworthy. That can be a hard pill to swallow, but it will offer great insight. Try not to get upset if people tell you that you aren’t trustworthy. It’s a learning experience.